The Chick Whisperer #18 — Defining Relationships And Making Solid Decisions
I finally got my act together and released Episode #18 of The Chick Whisperer podcast last night. This must mean we’re “legal”. Were things only that uncomplicated…LOL My co-host for this one is my...
View ArticleLose The Exclamation Point…And Be Proud [Video]
OK gentlemen, it’s time for another video blog. And this time I’m going to talk about pickup strategy. Yes, even in the world of character-based seduction it’s absolutely still crucial to have game...
View ArticleHow To Date Taller Women
I’ve been getting numerous requests for some info on this topic lately. And I’ll tell you, what was supposed to have been a blog post grew into a full-scale Special Report. There has not been nearly...
View ArticleTap That: How Does Alcohol Affect Your Game? [Video]
You hit a bar or club, get a few drinks in you and you’re Superman with the women. What’s up with that? Better yet, can you “bottle that up” and take a sip elsewhere…like during the day or even online?...
View Article“And That’s Why I Don’t Eat Shrimp”
Are you an NBA fan? If you watched the playoffs, then no doubt you saw the T-Mobile commercial where Charles Barkley is constantly calling D-Wade. Hilarious stuff, particularly when Chuck inanely...
View ArticleWhy Cold Approaches Are So Last Century
“Day game is my domain” he told me as we sat down for some lunch. My friend was known in our circle as a day game purist, with a style much different from mine. He seemed to have an “on/off” switch....
View ArticleA Pickup Line Is No Longer A Pickup Line If SHE Started It
Lately I’ve been coaching more guys on how to succeed at online dating than ever before, and time and again I encounter something that amazes me. I think we could all agree that using cheesy pickup...
View ArticleTrain Game
Many guys spend way too many hours every year catching public transport, trains, buses, subways, ferries, etc. I used to have a 45 minute train trip every day to get to work, and 45 minutes on the...
View ArticleHow To Deserve What You Want By Being Yourself
The concept of deserving what you want is the fundamental one in this community. But let me ask you a question. How do you understand this concept? See, some time ago I caught myself thinking that I...
View ArticleRejection And The Rules Of Approach [Part One]
Two limiting beliefs come to mind for me in night game, and any time overall, really. These involve rejection and the so-called rules of approach. Too many times we wrap ourselves up in both of these...
View ArticleRejection And The Rules Of Approach [Part Two]
As promised in Part One, let me give you an example from my Saturday night. One group was sitting awkwardly at the bar, in a big circle they made with a bunch of meathead looking guys to their right. I...
View ArticleFive Ways To Get Women To Approach You
Here’s a question I get all the time: “Hey Scot, how do I know when a woman is interested in me? And how can I get women to approach me first?” Okay, that’s actually two questions. But you get the...
View ArticleThree Tips For Guys Who Are Starting Out
In today’s post I’m going to try to break down some of the things that I did when I was starting out on this journey that I believe helped me out. First, I recommend getting some friends/wingmen who...
View ArticleThundercat’s BootyCast
How’s it going everyone? Today I was Joseph “Thundercat” Matthews’ guest on his BootyCast podcast. Surprised? Well, don’t ever say I shy away from hardcore Seduction Community stuff because this is the...
View ArticleStructured Authentic Game
A few years ago when I was just starting on this journey to becoming a man who is successful with women, I studied a lot of material on the structure of “outer” game. As many people here would know, a...
View ArticleJunior Is A Flirt
Keep your infant daughters away from my kid. Actually, check that. Keep your pre-teen daughters away from him. Seriously, Scot, Jr. (aka “Micky Mac”) is a serious flirt. Already. At the ripe old age of...
View ArticleThe Power of Being Observant In Pickup
Ok guys, around here it is mentioned a lot how a man can almost have what appears to be superpowers with a woman. Being observant is yet another one of those powers. I find it to be the most important...
View ArticleAlcohol-Free Authenticity — Improve Your Success With Women When Sober
When you are out on the town having a good time with your friends and talking to girls, it may be so tempting to have a few drinks. Perhaps, drinking allows you to relax, get you out of your head,...
View ArticlePerfectionism And How To Tackle It…For Dating Success And Beyond
It has been a while since I posted my last article on this blog, and it’s already February 2009, so you may wonder why I have remained silent for a few weeks? And the truth is that I was afraid. Yes, I...
View ArticleRetail Stores: Maximize Your Numbers In The Dating Game
Hey guys, this article hit my mind as I thought about my journey in the dating game. Retail stores, malls, etc. are fantastic places to start out if you are just beginning your self change in the...
View ArticleThe Master Plan — You Already Are A “Natural”
Lately there’s been lots of talk about “natural game”…as if all we need to do is emulate a guy who we see as a “natural”, and we’ll somehow become more attractive to women. Now sure, having some guys...
View ArticleThe Master Plan Is LIVE
Today is the day everything changes. Until now, it has been implied to us as guys that we needed to “soften our demeanor”, “be nice” and otherwise fall in line with modern “feminized” culture. The...
View ArticleWhen She Says, “I Have A Boyfriend” + Special Teleseminar Event
With The Man’s Approach ready to drop this Friday September 10th at 11 am EDT, I wanted to be sure to get you up to speed with the goodies I’ve been handing out…just in case you’re not on the info...
View Article7 Bad-To-The-Bone Skills That Women Love
I’m not sure what it is lately, but I’ve been getting more than my fair share of e-mails from guys saying something to the effect of this: “But Scot, I’m incredibly useless/boring/average and there’s...
View ArticleDo Men Even Notice Women Anymore?
A while back I was on a coaching call with a woman who happens to be smart, successful and beautiful. We were actively discussing creative ways she might encourage the kind of man she deserves to...
View ArticleIf It’s Not Fast, It’s Only Half-Fast: 5 1/2 Situations With Women That Call...
Go ahead. Say the first part of the subject line out loud. Do it briskly enough so you can hear what’s REALLY being said. In other words, don’t give it a half-fast effort. So gentlemen, what does a...
View ArticleWhat Have We Replaced The Seduction Community With?
What’s truly bizarre to me is guys who have been working on getting better with women for less than, say, five years (therefore, the vast majority) have probably never even heard of The Seduction...
View Article15 Things No Man Should EVER Say
Most of my online research on the subject du jour uncovered articles by angry women whose baseline vitriol toward men was barely concealed under the surface. Predictably, the vast majority were...
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